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Letting Go of Replaying Past Events

How RTT® Hypnotherapy Helps You Let Go of Past Events and Reclaim Peace of Mind

 

We all do it sometimes, replaying moments we wish had gone differently. That conversation. That mistake. That time you froze or didn’t speak up. It’s as if our minds are stuck on a loop, revisiting the same scenes, the same feelings.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and more importantly, you’re not broken. Your brain is trying to protect you. But what if replaying the past is actually holding you back?

In this post, we’ll explore why this happens, how Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®) can break the cycle, and some practical steps to help you let go for good

Why Do We Keep Replaying Past Events?

Your mind loves the familiar, even if the familiar isn’t helpful. Replaying uncomfortable memories is often your brain’s attempt to “make sense” of what went wrong or prevent it from happening again.

But here’s the catch: repeatedly revisiting these moments strengthens the emotional charge around them. Instead of moving on, you become stuck.

Over time, this can affect:

  • Your self-confidence

  • Your anxiety levels

  • Your ability to trust yourself

  • Your sleep and focus

If replaying past events is keeping your mind busy at night, you might find our guide on how anxiety impacts sleep – and how RTT® can help you rest helpful for finally switching off and feeling calm.

What is RTT® Hypnotherapy and How Can It Help You Let Go of the Past?

RTT® is a powerful form of hypnotherapy that helps you uncover the root cause of emotional patterns, like replaying past events, so you can release them and form new, empowering beliefs.

RTT® works with your subconscious to:

  • Uncover the origin of the mental loop

  • Reframe how your mind interprets it

  • Install new beliefs that support emotional resilience

It’s not about forgetting the past. It’s about changing your relationship with it, so it no longer defines you.

3 Practical Steps to Let Go of Replaying Past Events

While RTT® addresses the subconscious root, here are some conscious tools you can use right now:

1. Name the Loop

Notice when you’re replaying a scene. Say to yourself, “This is just a memory, not a prediction.”

2. Flip the Thought

Ask: What did this moment teach me? or What would I say to a friend going through this?

3. Visual Rehearsal

Close your eyes and imagine responding differently, more confidently, more calmly. Your brain rewires through repetition, so rehearse the version of you that’s already moved on.

Why Letting Go of Past Events Matters (and What Science Says)

Research in neuroscience shows that the brain doesn’t easily distinguish between real-time experiences and vividly imagined memories. So, when you mentally revisit painful events, your body can respond as if they’re happening all over again, activating stress hormones like cortisol and reinforcing emotional distress.¹

Repetitive negative thinking has been linked to increased anxiety, depression, and even physical health issues.² That’s why finding ways to gently interrupt these loops, like RTT®, self-awareness techniques, or visualisation, isn’t just helpful, it’s essential for your emotional wellbeing.

By shifting your focus, even in small ways, you’re actively rewiring the brain toward calm, clarity, and resilience.³

Q&A: Why Do We Keep Replaying Past Events (and How to Stop)?

Q: Why does my mind keep replaying past situations?

It’s common for the mind to loop past events when something feels unresolved or emotionally charged. The NHS explains that unhelpful thought patterns can create a “cycle” where thoughts, feelings, and behaviours feed into each other. Your mind replays moments to make sense of them or protect you from future hurt but the loop often becomes exhausting rather than helpful.

Q: Is it normal to ruminate or overthink things that already happened?

Yes. Rumination is a recognised pattern where your mind repeatedly goes over the same thoughts, often linked to stress or anxiety. NHS guidance notes that anxious thinking can become repetitive and intrusive, especially when emotions are involved. It’s a common experience, but it can affect your mood, confidence, and ability to switch off.

Q: Can replaying past events affect my day‑to‑day wellbeing?

It can. Constant mental “replays” can increase anxiety, disrupt sleep, and make it harder to focus. NHS resources describe how unhelpful thought cycles can influence how you feel physically and emotionally, creating tension, worry, or low mood. Many people don’t realise how much these loops shape their daily state until they begin to shift.

Q: Why do I keep thinking about conversations or mistakes from years ago?

Your mind stores emotional memories more vividly than neutral ones. When something felt embarrassing, painful, or confusing, your subconscious may hold onto it as a way of trying to protect you. Over time, this becomes a habit, not a reflection of who you are or how strong you are.

Q: How can RTT® help me stop replaying the past?

RTT® works by uncovering the root cause of why certain memories or moments feel “unfinished.” Once those deeper patterns are understood and released, your mind no longer needs to loop them for protection. Clients often describe feeling lighter, clearer, and more in control, without having to force their thoughts to stop.

Real Life: How RTT® Helped Clients Let Go of the Past and Feel Empowered

🌟 Case Study 1: “I’m Not Good Enough”

One client came to me constantly replaying moments where they felt judged or inadequate. These memories were impacting their confidence in social situations and even at work.

After two RTT® sessions, they identified a deep-seated belief of “I’m not good enough” that had been running the show for years. We rewrote that inner script, and with it came a newfound self-worth and calm they hadn’t felt in decades.
→ Read the full story

Woman on beach symbolising emotional freedom, confidence, and self-worth after RTT hypnotherapy

🌟 Case Study 2: Breaking Free from the Comfort Zone

Another client found themselves overthinking every past decision, especially around change. They’d replay “failures” and talk themselves out of taking action.

Through RTT®, they uncovered the moment their fear of risk began, and dismantled it.
Today, they’re exploring new opportunities with courage and clarity.
→ See how she did it

Confident woman enjoying calm after personal breakthrough and mindset shift through RTT hypnotherapy

Are You in Control of Your Thoughts, Or Stuck Replaying the Past?

I know someone who goes swimming every morning. It was meant to be her time, just her, the water, and a bit of calm to start the day.

But instead of switching off, her mind would race.
Lap after lap, she was thinking about work emails, dinner plans, school pick-ups, the pile of tasks waiting for her.

By the time she got out of the pool, she couldn’t remember how many lengths she’d done, or even if she’d enjoyed the swim at all.

Peaceful woman sitting by pool, lost in thought, reflecting on mental clarity after letting go of overthinking

This happened day after day.

Her body was moving, but her mind was somewhere else entirely.
The constant mental chatter followed her straight back to her desk, where she’d sit feeling overwhelmed, unfocused, and unsure where to even begin.

Does that sound familiar?

We often think we’re in control of our thoughts, but more often, they’re running the show in the background.
RTT® helps you shift that dynamic by getting to the root of those mental patterns, so you can reclaim the mental space that’s rightfully yours.

When to Seek Support for Replaying Past Events or Overthinking

If these loops are keeping you stuck, anxious, or unsure of yourself, you don’t have to do this alone.

RTT® hypnotherapy offers a powerful, personalised path forward.
All sessions are online and tailored to you, so you can work through patterns from the comfort of home.

🌀 Explore my services for confidence, anxiety, and emotional resilience.

📅 Book a free consultation to chat more about what’s going on and how I can help.

Joanna Jewitt, Clinical Hypnotherapist specializing in anxiety relief

About the Author
Joanna Jewitt is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Advanced RTT® Practitioner, trained personally by Marisa Peer. She helps people overcome anxiety, rebuild confidence, and break free from limiting patterns through online RTT® hypnotherapy sessions worldwide.

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#2:Nolen-Hoeksema, S. (2000). The role of rumination in depressive disorders and mixed anxiety/depressive symptoms. Journal of Abnormal Psychology.
#3:Davidson, R. J., & McEwen, B. S. (2012). Social influences on neuroplasticity: Stress and interventions to promote well-being. Nature Neuroscience.